I, me, mine

Sri Sadgurubhyoh Namah

Dear Guruji,

I understood the following today, Pls validate,

The thoughts 'i, me, mine' are the cause of suffering. Without these thoughts also existence is there. meaning, if I take that the (body+mind+intellect) as existence and is me, it is still there with all sensations, but as 'i, me, mine' lessens the suffering lessens. 

Somebody is suffering because of these 'i,me,mine' thoughts and somebody is feeling the liberation from suffering when these thoughts are not there. That somebody cannot be defined.

It is the identification with body mind intellect, that causes the suffering.

Without these thoughts I am fine. (Now I cant say how to explain to you that 'I am fine', because you will ask 'who is that I?'. I have no answer to that). That I is there. It can suffer identifying with BMI or it can be peaceful and blissful if it doesnt identify with BMI.

Prabhuji : Not identifying with I is sufficient